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Choosing memory care, one decision at a time.

Most families need this intensely once. These five steps point at the guides already on the site. Nothing here is a new statistic.

1. Step 1

   Read the record before the brochure

   A serious finding and a paperwork finding are not the same thing. California labels them Type A and Type B. Other states use different words for the same idea.

   How California labels findings

2. Step 2

   Decide whether it is time

   The useful question is whether home is still safe, not whether a brochure looks calm.

   When it is time for memory care

3. Step 3

   Find out who pays

   In California, Medi-Cal memory care usually means the Assisted Living Waiver, and only in participating counties. Other states have their own programs. Confirm the current list with the state before you rely on it.

   Medi-Cal and memory care

4. Step 4

   Tour with a list

   Ask about the facility’s own inspection history, not a generic script.

   37 questions for a tour

5. Step 5

   Read the contract, then the first 72 hours

   Fee increases, discharge rules, and arbitration clauses are in the admission agreement. If a hospital is discharging someone this week, start with the first-72-hours guide.

   The first 72 hours

About to sign an admission agreement? The contract review is free.